Is it love that
hurts??
Does love really hearts??? I have heard a lot of people
saying "love hurts" and I find that they are quite frustrated from
the word love but I am a bit confused, how could love hurt? Love is the only
thing that bounds people, unite us and makes our life awesome to live. I don’t
know either these people are wrong or right but what I believe is love can
never hurt. If love hurts then how can this world regulate. We cannot imagine
our life without love. So are the people
who say they are hurt just saying wrong thing? Absolutely not. They are hurt
but not by love. There is something else from which they are heartened And that
is expectation. Whenever we love
somebody we put lots of expectations on them.
For eg. If you are in love with somebody you want him/her to give much
time to you, care more, you want to see them more and more. You expect him/her
to chat with you only, you want to talk with them but in reality it may not
happen as we expect.
There may be a lot of reason why your expectations are not
met. For eg. Sometimes they cannot give much time to you, and it has reason
either he/she is not interested to talk with you or there is a bit problem in
managing time. You wanted to be associate with them. More but they may not be interested
in being in relationship bounds. Because when u r in relationship you have to
be responsible toward your relationship, you have to take care of the person
you love, you have to. Give time and may not be carefree.
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| Is it love that hurts. |
So in my view
whenever we love somebody we have to set them free, let them enjoy their life
freely and live your life, enjoy your life and never try to create any boundaries
in other person’s life. Life is really
awesome friends. No one should try and can decrease the awesomeness of our
life. Live your life and let them live their life. Everyone have their own
dreams own choices don’t try to make your choices theirs. Live your dreams and let them live theirs. Never
expect too much from other person even if they are your loved ones. When these
expectations are not met they will lead u to. Frustrated life and hurt u a lot.
So friends just love, love and love* . . .
* No conditions apply.
That’s called unconditional love. So this much for today... m
not a love guru or any love expert this is just a simple thought you may agree
or disagree with my thinking.. No worry. But please do share your feelings
through comments. Feelings should never die. Thanks a lot for reading.
Stay positive, stay motivated and stay blessed.
lots of magic dust to u...
-Raaz Ojha
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